Nothing changes in Nature’s beauty – it is always beautiful! Imagine the view of vibrant green rolling hills, populated with massive fields of varying crops, wheat, corn, hay and more. Additionally, clear water streams satisfied any appetite of a fly fisherman. It was a hunter’s paradise. The Midwest produced an incredible number of commodity crops that were distributed around the world to feed the hungry.
Contrary to what the New Yorker’s had to say about us; “there simply was nothing between N. Y. and Los Angeles.” In fact, the truth; the Midwest has always been a stabilizing force for the USA. We were proud to feed America and provide sanity for city folks retreat. Remarks such as these were further damaging to my own self-worth.
Being a young farm girl and growing into a teenager, time passed ever so slow, filled with frustration, misery and pain. It felt like wearing a straight jacket, and I dreamed of having wings to move on to a happier and freer lifestyle. All the pent up emotions and feelings from being restrained would later need to be undone for me to be happy and live a rewarding life. Family support was minimal, and few other children to play with. Rag doll, orphan Annie was my trusted companion. I loved her and my other best friend was a little dog named boots, who loved to escort me through the fields on the way to catch fish. She and boots went everywhere with me. Our favorite country song had lyrics that said” somehow we will get by.” Our song to inspire us! The second song lyrics to keep us going; “love makes the world go around”. What eluded me was the feeling of love. I was starved for touch, pleasure and play!
Positive for me, I was born before Dr. Spock recommended all babies should be bottle fed. Years later the dangers of bottle feeding became known, it hindered bonding between mother and infant, further destabilizing childhood development.
It was a hard life being a farmer. Always concerned about whether the crops would grow to maturity or be wiped out by drought, freezing or heavy rains. There were many chores to be done on the farm and my dad needed a boy and mom needed a girl so I filled in for both of them.
So much suffering and misery existed because everyone was sexually repressed! The subject of sex was taboo! Even hugs were off limits—it may lead to something??? Everyone was deprived of love and could not discover the remedy. Under my breath I said someday I will work to diminish sexual repression and a few years later in 1969 I led the sexual revolution from Sandstone Retreat in Topanga Ca.. I am proud of this accomplishment!